Introducing Reclaim Your Kingdom: The Warriors Code

Learn How To Ignite Power, Presence & Prosperity In Your Life Through Becoming A Warrior King

Join Stefanos and a tribe of inspired men on a 3-month journey as we explore our depths, inner strength and evolve our consciousness  . . . all by following ancient wisdom blended with cutting-edge modern practises

Reclaim Your Kingdom: The Warriors Code is a 3-month immersive journey for men only. We come together as a group of men willing to transform for the better.

To expand our consciousness, access to inner resources and connect, bond and unite as STRONG & empowered men to open our minds and hearts to the world that has been bestowed upon our feet.

You will be guided, facilitated, directed and asked to contribute meaningfully your life experience.

You will not be judged, you will grow, you will be challenged and you will experience being a man through a new lens – a supportive, empowered and life-changing lens.

Reclaim Your Kingdom – A Warrior’s Code is predicated on the uniquely put together 12 principles, which form The Conscious Warrior Model. This ethos is about reframing the manner in which men behave, become and move through the world. The manner in which we ‘see’ ourselves and the manner in which we learn to forgive, create, release and evolve.

This program is a pragmatic and practical way to evolve our ways leveraging ancient wisdom and modern techniques (such as neuroscience, modern psychology, Eastern mysticism and evolutionary psychology to mention a few) to allow us to be more connected, intelligent, adaptive, strong, inclusive and lovingly open men – to ultimately revere women and children and to learn to step humbly into our authentic power and of course revere ourselves.

Stefanos Sifandos Relational Alchemist, International Speaker and Change-maker


Stefanos Sifandos

Stefanos facilitates transformational growth through neuro-empowerment practices, an integration of spiritual praxis and western psychology to improve and enhance the quality of your relationships. Stefanos believes that intimate relationships and sacredness in union is a direct path to enlightnment and freedom.

Immersed in deep men’s empowerment work and intimate relationships, Stefanos merges the best of eastern and western methodologies and philosophies to promote balance, sacredness and joy in life. Using integrative techniques and methods, Stefanos has created programs and systems to enhance the quality of your life, your intimate relationship and in essence bring you closer to your potential.

Having worked with elite special forces soldiers, Olympic gold medalists, some of the best fighters (multiple world champions) and leveraging physical challenge, Stefanos has learned much about the male condition. Having also traversed the depths of his own pain and fears profoundly, he has overcome destructive patterns and has faced multiple ‘ego deaths’.

By restructuring and reframing his own masculinity and movement through the world as a man relating to himself, women and his purpose, Stefanos has discovered and created methodologies for navigating the often difficult path of manhood. Through a deeper connection to God, Earth and self, Stefanos has realised the power of the human spirit.

Through his diverse, deep & varied background; for the last 15 years Stefanos has been at the forefront of innovating the global Health & Wellness Industry, whilst being a sought-after innovator in the personal transformation, relationship & leadership space.

After struggling immensely most of his life with fear around freedom and commitment, delving deep into and shifting his own pain and shadows, Stefanos has now found incredible freedom THROUGH commitment with his beautiful fiancée Christine.

It is Stefanos’s mission to help you reconnect with your truth, and empower you to create the abundant life that you deserve.

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Stefanos speaks to a myriad of topics form consciousness, mindset, health, relating and human evolution.

Stefanos empowers awakening souls across the globe break through limiting beliefs and connect to their true essence.

My Journey:

Stuck In A Cycle Of Despair


Our lives are a result of the decisions we make.

These decisions are based on how we feel. Our feelings drive our behaviours and our experiences. When we are disconnected, we experience disharmony.

I was this person.

I was stuck in a perpetual cycle of ‘bad’, misaligned choices that had me running from myself, sabotaging love and relationships.

I was f*****g frustrated, struggling in my career, being in an internal state of friction and overall being unkind, fearful, angry and out of control in my behaviours.

I got hit hard with a reality check and was shaken to the core.

I was left confronted with my actions, experiencing deep shame and guilt.

My businesses were falling apart, my relationship was exposed and I was left raw and open.

It turned my world upside down. What I thought was real and ‘right’ in my life was false. I had to completely rearrange, restructure and reconstruct who I thought I was – inclusive of my beliefs, patterns, models of reality and movement through the world.


So I had to dive deep


The key to this transformation was when my intimate and romantic relationship became unravelled. I was dishonest and immensely out of integrity.

I needed to change and I did not have the courage to consciously choose to do so, so I was ‘forced’. I am more than happy this occurred.

It sent me down a path of profound awakening and realisation.

You see, I have been intellectually, spiritually, physically and even emotionally ‘intelligent’ for most of my life. Developing mal-adaptive and survival based coping strategies to survive as a child that fitted with the persona of outwardly (and in a projected way) having it all together, but internally silently sufferng.

I carried these in to my adult relationships – I was ‘relationally unintelligent’. I was self-absorbed, was driven by unconscious belief systems and disconnected from reality. I essentially self-sabotaged my life, but not intensely enough to assume the responsibility of looking inwardly. Times were about to change…

To choose to awaken to this was a gift.

A difficult one that brought me to the brink of death many times and intense pain, but a worthwhile one. I moved through it with great revelation and for this I am deeply grateful.

My Darkest Moment


The darkest aspect of this journey was realising I really was inauthentic and deeply fractured as a man and as a human.

I was confronted with my choices. My choices to be unfaithful, secretive, to live in shadows, to SAY and STATE one thing and be and DO another.

To realise the immense disconnection of all of this. To then consciously choose to begin from zero-point was challenging to say the least.

There were many times when I contemplated ending this existence.

Immersion in to the unknown, the mystery and the darkness disillusioned me.

Realising my behaviour was weak, fear-based and apathetic was difficult. The ego took a huge hit. Multiple ‘ego deaths’ will do that to you.

How I Rose From The Ashes

The key to this transformation was when my intimate and romantic relationship became unravelled.

I was dishonest and out of integrity. I needed to change and I did not have the courage to consciously choose to do so, so I was ‘forced’.

I am appreciative this occurred. It sent me down a path of profound awakening and realisation.

You see, I have been intellectually, spiritually, physically and even emotionally ‘intelligent’ for most of my life.

Developing mal-adaptive and survival based coping strategies to survive as a child. I carried these into my adult relationships – I was ‘relationally unintelligent’.

I was self-absorbed, was driven by unconscious belief systems and disconnected from reality.

To choose to awaken into my true power and strength was a humbling gift.

A difficult one that brought me to the brink of death and intense pain, but a worthwhile one. I moved through it with great revelation and for this I am grateful.

From Chaos To Clarity


As I stepped into my healthy masculine, reframed what it meant to be a man and continued to redefine my path in alignment with congruent action and truth I stepped into a more inspired state of being.

Darkness became my friend, fear became neutralised. I moved into the unknown and gained dramatically from doing so. I related to fear differently , from a place of greater trust, awareness and knowing.

I felt more comfortable and therefore did not feel the need to be on edge so much. The entirety of my life transformed. My relationships improved, my communication became highly conscious.

I became more aware, discerning, trustworthy, reliable, connected, vertical and honourable. I became safe to myself and to others.

My career and service took shape, gained real momentum and I developed undeniable clarity and presence.

I felt powerful in a connected and endearing way. I know this is also possible for you and the myriad of tools I have utilised and developed to allow this to occur has transformed my life dramatically.

We Must Learn To Lead Laterally

Reclaim Your Kingdom: The Warriors Code is for inspired men yearning to lead laterally.

This is for men like you, who desire to evolve into your fullest expression, not just for yourself but also for the women in your lives, your children, your Earth, your present and your future.

Reclaim Your Kingdom – A Warrior’s Code is about bringing back collective and individual healthy values of our ancestors and learning to assimilate them in today’s modern world.

As modern men, we have lost touch and connection with what matters most. Our power that can be used with such clarity, inclusivity and trust.

We have lost our ability to be harmonious, empowered, connected, fair, equitable, just, centred, poised, in mastery and compassionate.

We have been told by society and compounded cultural constructs to be one way, yet we are causing deeper disconnect than ever before through our current fear-based actions.

We can leverage the skills and tools we currently have. We can lean upon where we excel and bring this power in to the evolution of humanity. 

We can transform this.

We can evolve this.

Our time is now.

You are ready, we are ready and together we can stand in verticality and strength – discernment and authentically connected power.

Experience Massive Transformation Across Every Area Of  Life

Over the 3 month journey, you will evolve each facet of your life, weaving together a harmonious, empowered, masterful, clear and balanced expression of your true masculine potential.


Evolve, enhance and connect to yourself with greater precision, wisdom and care

Life Purpose

Lead yourself with purpose and clarity to ensure alignment and empowerment

Romance & Love

You will learn how to grow with and into love and connect and communicate authentically


No longer shy away from intimacy and immerse into the benefits of close connection

Finance & Business

Master yourself and  every area of your life – inclusive of the way you perceive abundance

Overcoming Fears 

We address your pain points to become whole and have greater access to the wonder of life

Movement & Health 

Master the importance connecting to your body through postures of resilience, STRENGTH and focus


Learn how to communicate your needs and learn how to connect with the needs of those you love


Learn how to powerfully connect to your true sovereign nature and lead laterally

Creating Rituals 

Connect to the giving and recieving power of harnessed, sacred, personal practice


Redefine what it means to be masculine, ‘manliness’ and manhood on your terms


Be the man the world deserves and embody the powerful code of the chivalrous warrior

Health Is A Pillar Of Self-Mastery

It becomes imperative we value our health! As men, we negate our health. The value of health should be a part of every person’s life. Men, we need to be healthy.

My extensive background in working with special forces military, gold medal Olympians, world champion fighters, amputees and elite athletes has allowed me to understand first-hand the importance of integrated health and wellness as a platform for living our lives fully, connectedly and in integrity.

The Reclaim Your Kingdom Program lays a foundation of health as an integral premise for transformation, empowerment and strength for all areas of our lives.

The healthier you are, the more you can give to life, your purpose, your relationships and yourself.

Too many of us move through life in deeply unhealthy states and wonder why we are never fully connected or happy. We must embrace health, movement, proper nutrition and physical presence as a foundation for living abundantly, happily and connected.

Unlock The Warriors Code

On this powerful 3-month journey you will learn the foundations of health, vitality and physical empowerment as a basis and extension for living in an empowered and integrated state.

What You Will Learn:

The latest neuroscience bio hacks for evolving our physiology
Ancient and modern mindfulness and mind-body integrative principles for optimal health
Basic, intermediate and advanced breathing techniques to enhance your quality of life, physiology and the way you feel
Proper nutrient timing, nutritional principles
Engaged movement patterning and the principles for epic health and vitality
Sleep, managing energy, enhancing cellular energy and health

As a result, you will feel and have:

Deeper clarity of purpose and vision for self
Greater connected integrated intelligence, intuition and applied wisdom
Deeper and more connected sex, attraction and charisma

Greater energy for what we value, fitness and play (fun)

More time for extracurricular activities
Experience a more profound meditation and spiritual practice
Stronger discipline and devotion to your purpose, practices and what you value most
Stronger sensuality and sexual performance
More time and energy for intimacy with lovers and loved ones
An ability to truly connect to what you value and set your dreams
Better overall posture, core strength and overall performance
Stronger discernment, authority, authenticity and integrity

Is This Journey For You?

This immersive program is targeted at men wanting to grow, expand and become the grandest most present versions of themselves.

This journey is for you if you resonate with the following:

You are wishing to express yourself in the highest manner possible

You need support on your journey

You wish to connect with like-minded healthy, conscious men

You wish to prioritise your health, gain power from expressing vulnerability, understand and learn how to lead yourself and others with sincerity and strength

You wish to lead with authentic prowess, presence and purpose

You wish to learn how to communicate with clarity and truth and be revered, trusted and respected

You wish to be challenged and grow profoundly

You are ready for deeper and embodied transformation around defining your masculinity

You are ready to explore the shadows, your fears and break through what is limiting you and causing you to play a ‘small game’ in life

Embodying The Conscious Warrior

Over the 3 month journey, we will draw on and explore the 12 core tenants of The Conscious Warrior model as we delve deep into the inner sanctuary of our Self.

We come together as a brotherhood redefining the depths of our masculinity and embodying a new paradigm of being – we are literally creating the ground we walk on with innovative masculinity.

Week 1 Ownership & Personal Power

We experience personal power when we assume ownership for our gifts, our deficits and the entire spectrum of what makes us who we are. Ownership of these postures is what grants us authentic power. We learn to embrace the shadow and feel truly connected to all that we are. Perpetual and continued shame and guilt has no place here. 

This tenet is fundamental in allowing us to feel and be open to the posturing of responsibility necessary for innate transformation and transmutation of behaviours and actions that no longer serve us.

Week 2 Reflection, Solitude & Stillness

As men, we require immersion in to silence, stillness and solitude. It is this space that allows us to carefully contemplate our existence, our path, our ways, our behaviours  and the manner in which we treat ourselves and others. We learn very specific and  ancient introspective practices that allow us to explore our inner realm with great  clarity and depth. These deep practices allow us to show up in greater harmony in the manner in which we relate to what we care about.

Week 3 Movement & Connection

Crucial to understanding ourselves and treading a path of self-gnosis – movement and connection is all about connecting to our bodies whilst simultaneously connecting to Earth and other healthy men.

This principle explores the power of healthy connection in various areas of our lives and does so through a lens of physicality – allowing the physical vessel to be an extension of the spiritual self. We unpack ‘The Triad Of Health’ and we master the body as a tool to express ourselves authentically in this world. We begin to understand the power of our strength and further connect meaning and function to our biology and physiology by honoring our evolutionary adaptations. We learn to be strong as a natural function of what it means to be a man and we direct this strength towards good.

Week 4 Purposeful & Passionate

Here, we unpack the value in passion in purposefulness. We learn how to consciously communicate through mastery of the conscious communication model and we learn how to show up authentically in life. It is through our authentic posturing that we realise the value that we bring to this world and we ultimately express that through a clear channel of passion and purpose.

Clarity is wisdom and wisdom is empowering. We further learn how to create and maintain authentic momentum in life whilst honouring the women in our lives through our connected and inclusive purpose.

Week 5 Inspired Action

In this principle we are able to transcend what no longer serves us (take the wisdom and the teaching from previous embodied states and grow inclusively). We live from a place of higher-ordered action. This principle allows us to live an expanded life and follows on from the other 11 principles.

Action becomes effortless, seamless and connected. Beyond this, we are living from a state of being that is evolved and inclusive of more than just ourselves. We learn how to reverse the polarity of selfishness and transmute our ‘male’ energies and use them from a perspective of holism, empowerment and connectedness.

Week 6 Honouring, Admiration & Belief

This principle is about forging deep respect and an ability to receive fully from the feminine without distortion of the gift or the message. As men, we are often exceptional givers, but can we truly receive? Can we transcend the stigmas attached to receiving and not associate this with weakness? We honor so deeply that we wish not to change the feminine but to rather BE with that motion and with that dance. We learn key postures in how to relate in this way, maximise our expression and presence, whilst gaining deeply from the raw and open power of the women in our lives.

Further, we learn to equilibrate, recognise the harmony and balance the polarity within through various journeys of deep admiration and connection to the divine feminine. And we ultimately do this by recognising our own sacredness and divinity as men through key forgiveness, empathy, compassion practices and practices of safety.

Week 7 Verticality & Discernment

Here we learn to immerse in to complete presence and the benefits of embodying this posture. We learn to discern but from a place of love, connection and authenticity – not abhorrence, intolerance, fear and hate.

We learn to develop and cultivate assertiveness in masculinity that bonds male truth to all aspects of self and to the feminine outside of himself. We learn to move in harmonious balance especially in intimate relationship, where our connection is not over played or non- existent. We learn to achieve this through the understanding the 3 stages of the healthy self. 

We also grow through the releasing of unhealthy masculine practices that are divisive, oppressive and not fair to our own growth and that of society. 

Week 8 Selfish Selflessness

We explore the 6 basic premises that underpin the posture of selfish selflessness. Selfish selflessness is one of the most natural states and postures to assume. When we move with an intention to ‘evolve’, grow and expand our capacities, expressions, minds and the entirety of our beings we are being ‘selfish’ but in a healthy, constructive, additive (adding value to life) and inspiring manner.

When we couple this movement with a synergistic intent to move in this way because we realise we are of greater value to others then we increase our capacity to be of service to others and we are acting selflessly. Marry the two states and we have selfish selflessness. We cannot be great without focusing on ourselves and as you will learn if we solely focus on ourselves we limit actualising our potentiality. We are prosocial beings – If we simultaneously focus on others and ourselves, we all benefit – especially as our culture is becoming more connected, integrated and complex as a social organism.

Week 9 Intelligence

This principle is loaded – in the sense that it covers every facet of life. We gain mastery over the 9 areas of life; we master mature expression of self; our emotional, physical, spiritual, sexual, mental and relational bodies are connected to and mastered and we delve in to the neuroscience of behaviour and healthy expression. Mastered and directed sexual union becomes a powerful point for revelation in this priniciple. We also explore in great depth vulnerability and intimacy practices and how the truth of this allows us to experience aliveness, richness and authenticity in our relationships.

Here, the ‘intelligent’ man needn’t control, we learn how to be compassionate, empathetic, connected, worthy, valued within oneself and we learn how not to pity, make excuses and observe the world from an encompassing vantage point that ultimately liberates us from pain. Further, in this principle we explore embodied mindfulness and mastery praxis and we learn how not be emasculated by also having astute awareness around the depths of our own shadow and others.

Week 10 Sacred Ritualistic & Esoteric Practice

This is all about grounding in a regular, defined and committed personal spiritual practice that brings about connection, solace, being, the evolution, growth and expansion of self. We learn to do this on our own and with other men through profound rites of passage. In this principle we realise that the masculine is the depth (consciousness) and the feminine is the light – and it is the light that shines her wisdom on our depth. We learn to create wholeness rather than fracture within ourselves through the merging of polarity through sacred ritual. We then realise that we are all connected, we are one in unity – this is the realisation of the conscious warrior.

Week 11 Divine Worship & Surrender

This principle draws in complete reverence for the feminine / Shakti, Earth, Yoni, Women, Children in to our lives in order to improve and evolve our lives – to add to our wholeness, so that we can then feel and give further and deeper with greatness. We learn to sustain desire through regulating the heart (our heart is the flow of desire – we bring our power in to our hearts and sublime ourselves in this space – we essentially transmute our lust in to our gifts, whilst learning to keep our sexual energy charged in the most healthiest of ways. In this principle we also go deep in to the concept of Chivalry and the modern-day man. We cultivate sincere praxis around this and provide the tools to be a Chivalrous Modern Man. 

We further learn to surrender (or rather as men ‘create PRESENCE’) and therefore must be open in posture and vulnerable in doing so. We relinquish our stronghold on attempting to control our circumstances and who we are. Part of this entails us to let go of the attempt to be correct (we learn the tools in breaking thousands of years of extreme patriarchy and unhealthy, autocratic dominant practices). We transmute the unhealthy in to the healthy. We transmute needing to know everything and we learn to simply be open and present to growth in the ‘NOW’ moment. This vulnerability in choosing to consciously connect with those we love redefines how we interact with the women in our lives and how we choose to worship their presence from a healthy, connected and non-attached place.

Week 12 Explorer

This principle is about freedom, love and learning to orientate life in a healthy, inclusive, connected and evolved manner. When we are orientated towards our purpose we become free to express our truth. We explore the self, the Universe, others, ideas, wisdom, beliefs and our models of reality. We pursue and explore what we are about according to our values. We do not unhealthily compromise our power, freedom or exploration of life and we learn how to satisfy something that is deeply innate within all humans and particularly men.

Self-reliance also plays a massive role in this principle and we explore this diligently and at great depth.

Here’s What You Receive

You will be supported and guided through your 3-month journey in a sacred and transformative container. As a warrior on the path to Reclaiming Your Kingdom you receive the following benefits.

1-on-1 Mentorship With Stefanos

You receive 3 x 1-on-1 DEEP-DIVE mentoring sessions over the journey if you sign up on the highest package. These mentorship sessions are laser-focused and designed to facilitate a quantum shift in your consciousness.

Elite Health Protocol

Unleash your physical presence with a health, wellness and movement protocol – simple, yet powereful. You will learn to integrate your body and mind whilst accessing Stef’s vast expertise working with some of the most high performing males in the world.

Intensive Group Training

Direct weekly connection in immersive live webinars led by Stefanos. All sessions are recorded, saved and you will have lifetime access to all recordings. These webinars are a safe and evolving container for your accelerated evolution.

Warrior Challenges

These immersive, concentrated, explorative and fun challenges will strengthen your neural networks, adjust your behavioural patterning, allow you to reevaluate your beliefs and create new neuronal mapping that aligns with your goals, vision for self and embody the whole person you wish to be.

Powerful Bonuses

  • Continuous connection and access to a supportive group of healthy, conscious men
  • Access to additional models, bonus lessons, teachings and modules 
  • Comprehensive and RICH lesson plans and additional videos 
  • The ability to share and connect in ‘physical real time’ with other conscious men

Praise For Reclaim Your Kingdom

“It is so refreshing when someone simply “gets you”. He challenged me and pushed me to my limits, but never did I feel like he was not on my side. He is a professional, extremely committed to his craft and exceptionally good at it. Relatable, authentic and real, he has a no-bullshit approach to everything that really resonated with me. If you want to be listened to, go to see anyone. If you want to be heard, see Stef. And be prepared to meet yourself. Fully!”

Miles Sterjovski – Former International Soceroo & Premier League Player

“Stefanos has great adaptability – regardless of the challenge he will find a way to keep moving forward, being effective and draw you closer to your goals. Stefanos’s attitude towards life is a journey of self discovery with purpose and unwavering focused intention in anything and every action. It is his way of being and relating that allows those around him to thrive off his energy and wisdom.”

Daniel “The Rock” Dawson – 8 Time World Champion Fighter

“As I prepared for overseas operations that Stefanos was able to assist me with coping mechanisms, visualization and relaxation techniques that proved to be essential elements for creating focus and composure during times of stress and fatigue. Furthermore, without judgment or ego, Stefanos is what I consider a trusted advisor, coach and friend. He listens to your needs, observes the context and evaluates the situation and assist with treatment strategies for life. As a man in a world of Alfa males, it can be difficult to show emotion or compassion, as this can be perceived as weakness.”

Daniel J – Former member of The Australian Special Forces

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Join me in this momentous journey of evolution across all facets of life.

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The ‘Toxic’ Man

Thousands of years of compounded behaviour has resulted in the unhealthy and extreme posture and dominant masculine expression rampant in the majority of men today. By describing accurately who we have been is not perpetuating a myth or holding ‘ourselves back’. We are holding ourselves back by fracturing our psyche by not looking at ourselves from a place of holism.

In order to understand ourselves as men in society today, we must understand who we have been and why we have been this way. Reclaim Your Kingdom as a deep experiential program dives deep in to this. 

There is great stigma around this term ‘TOXIC MASCULINITY’. Men by default are NOT toxic! Toxicity in expression is NOT limited to men only! Allow me to debunk this and how it is utilised in this context. Unhealthy relational behaviour, attitudes, postures and actions in extreme expressions over compounded periods of extended time becomes toxic or unhealthy to the fabric of society and to the clear consciousness and evolution of self. It is as simple as that. Yes, females can also engage in toxic behaviour or toxic femininity – especially if choosing to posture, think, express, feel and behave with extreme mannerisms.

So, please allow me to continue to clarify for those that may be sensitive to this term because we really need to call this for what it is – unhealthy and toxic to our growth. Acknowledging intergenerational, collective and societal expressions of extreme behaviour led by the masculine consciousness (not completely by men, but vastly by men) does not mean we are doomed as men, nor that we are ‘satanic’ by a normative definition and limited to this state for the remainder of our existence. Men are fucking amazing and brilliant!!!

When we take ownership of who we have been as a collective essence and that there has been tremendous and still is expressions of imbalance in our conduct and relationships, we allow ourselves (and grant ourselves a better opportunity) to shift consciousness, action, behaviour, ideology and beliefs towards a more inclusive, sustainable and growth promoting collaborative culture and posture. We also recognise that our behaviours are conscious choices that have been perpetuated by habit, systemic influence and the fear to change in to greater states of equity.

Let us also acknowledge the leaps in evolution and ‘spiritual innovation’ that man particularly in this context has assumed and taken. This is incredible. We are opening our hearts and minds, our sexual centres and our presence. We are becoming more compassionate, accepting, less judgemental and more authentically empowered. As men I am not asking you to be TAME or mindless – LEAD! I am asking you be f*****g powerful from a place of connectedness and wisdom, not fear and unhealthy dominance.

We need to shift gears here. Move away from avoidance of what was, has been and will continue to be if we repress, deny and hide away from the shadow of the collective male consciousness. We have been subjugating, oppressive, unreasonable, in-just and unfair by large. By bringing this to awareness we can choose with deliberate intent to transmute this.  

We must move away from our fears of being rejected, ostracised and disconnected from society if we are to become more collaborative. This does not mean ‘giving away our balls’, or becoming hyper-passive, meek (in the modern sense of the word) or desensitised where we suppress or hormonal aptitudes and states. 

We can still be protective, physical, centred, powerful, courageous men who create a new paradigm of relating and thinking, whilst taking the value from our male organism and biology and what has worked for us and bring it in to society in a new and reformed manner. I am not insinuating becoming weak and subservient, relinquishing our ability to lead or lose ourselves in others.

There is no value, benefit nor purpose in this way of being. What is this new paradigm you may ask? Well, lets create and forge that together – here and now with this open discourse. Men, this program is redefining masculinity in a connected and integrated way. The principles and ethos of this program is grounded in growth and transmutation of what is not equitable in ownership and responsibility of self, not disempowerment. 

We do not require permission to be ‘real men’. We are empowered enough to be present to know who we need to be in order to create greater balance within and harmony within our social systems. So, lets move away from being hyper-sensitive to this term, lets call a spade a spade. Lets observe life as it is and as it has been and lets decide collectively if we are ready to next-level our collective consciousness…

On this immersive 3-month journey we ask profoundly deep and connected question of ourselves as men. Some questions we ask are:


  • Who are we?
  • How can we be clear in purpose and presence?
  • Who do we wish to be?
  • Why are we here?
  • How can we be of service to women, humanity, Earth?
  • How can we evolve ourselves
  • Where have we come from?
  • Do old behaviours serve humanity and ourselves today?
  • Can we transform ourselves?
  • Can we move on to a path that encompasses greater equity?
  • Can we learn to express the masculine in a powerful, empowering, balanced manner?
  • Can we be empowered and inclusive leaders without being autocratic, harsh and controlling leaders?
  • Can we find power in nurturing ourselves and others?
  • How do we express and connect to vulnerability and discover the power in that posture?
  • And much more…

The ethos, philosophy, principles, teachings, skills and attitudes developed and frameworks of The Reclaim Your Kingdom program assist us in shifting our attitudes as men from one of apathy, disconnection, fear, restriction and expectation to wholeness, connection, definitive direction, intimacy and authentic freedom.

There is a deep crisis in our expressed individual and collective masculinity. The way we express ourselves as men has damaged the way we behave, treat others, view ourselves and function in society.

There are two types of ‘toxic’ or unhealthily expressed men in our society

The Oppressor

The oppressor dominates, subjugates and prejudices against anyone that is not him. He is fuelled by fear and behaves erratically. He operates from a mentality of scarcity, is discriminative and abhorrent against women, or anyone that is not agreeable to his ways.

He is a bully, hyper-aggressive, entitled and enthralled with power. He thinks he is deserving and will pursue power, fame and fortune at any cost.

Life is about aesthetic appearance and his ego drives his behaviour.

The fear that his is fuelled by is transmuted in to anger, frustration, pain and short-temperedness. It can turn in to violence (overt or covert), it is disrespectful, not mindful, egotistical and non-caring.

This man is defined by self-absorption, selfishness and a careless attitude towards life. He perceives others to be beneath him and winning at any cost is his mantra.

He almost has Narcissistic Personality Disorder or at least traits pertaining to this condition. Extreme versions of this can border on sociopathy and psychopathy. This type of man is tyrannical and immoral, unethical and disconnected.

He lives in a world where he thinks and believes that the world and women are here to serve him. He is a womaniser and has an inflated sense of self-worth and notoriety.

His peers are false, he has no deep and meaningful connection and he thrives on others fearing him

Greed and self-interest are highlighted as virtues and modern and mainstream media do nothing to serve healthy masculinity. Perversion and sexual violence can be associated with

The Oppressor archetype and he will not see or feel anything intrinsically ‘wrong’ with taking what he thinks is his as ownership is given and a standard – ownership of property, stature and all that he thinks to believe is his…

He is largely characterised by being a scared little boy/man who has little substance and if wealthy can be controlling through his material wealth.

He is autocratic and demeaning, loud, obnoxious and overtly rude. Rather than using his wealth to add value to society, he continues to take. This, of course, is the extreme end of this spectrum.

Could this be you?

Are you on this spectrum somewhere?

Large pockets of society have conditioned many men to be this way, systemically shaping their behaviour in many ways.

The Polarised Coward

The second type of boy/man is highly disconnected and his fear retracts him from society, living, life, receiving and giving. He is disempowered and detached from life and hides in his corner of the world. He is unaware of what he values and lacks the capacity to take action on getting what he wants in a healthy way.

His fear debilitates him and his ability to live life fully and openly. He is fearful of change, being present, standing strong for what he believes in and what he values.

He fears the world around him, women, communicating his truth, failure, success, rejection, judgement, abandonment and being seen and known for who and what he is.

He does not appreciate who he is, nor the worth that he brings to this world.

He hides behind a façade, is internally lonely and ‘feminised’ in his posturing and expression.

He has generally been emasculated as a young man or child and does not know how to connect with, communicate openly with and be with the opposite sex.

He does not speak his truth for fear of being oppressed and not appreciated. Underneath every coward, you may discover that there is a tyrant lurking.

Men will struggle to maintain this perversion of self, where they hide behind the social fabric of society. This causes extreme suppressed anger.

Why Unhealthy Masculinity Is Destroying Our Society

Now, these two manifestations of perverted, unhealthy or toxic expressions of masculinity are basically extreme examples along the same spectrum, unfortunately many men nowadays fall somewhere along this spectrum, whether they can own this or not.

Sadly, this endemic toxic masculinity wreaks systemic havoc on the world and our relationships: high rates of suicide, violence towards women, depression & anxiety, crime, rape, alcoholism, self-harm, drug abuse, heart disease, gang violence and sickness.

All symptoms stemming from this perverse brand of manhood. And remember, sick men create and influence sick men. This cycle is perpetuated.

The great news is that Reclaim Your Kingdom has an ability to transmute this depressed state of the modern masculine and begin to integrate principles of healthy masculinity that can transform our behaviour dramatically. 

Every man has the right to “individuate”. Put another way – part of your divine purpose is to become the best of everything you need to be, can be and yearn to be through connecting with your values.

The path of humble continuous learning is the path of the healthy masculine warrior and king. According to Robert Moore PhD, these four primary “archetypes” of The Warrior, The Magician, The King and The Lover work together to help you “individuate”.

Reclaim Your Kingdom breaks down these archetypes and further integrates the perspective of the Tantric Man and how healthy masculinity allows us to express ourselves from a place of balanced connection and health.

When we are being purposeful, devoted, decisive and disciplined; we are becoming the best “warrior” we can be.

When we are being objective, wise, intuitive and intelligent; we are becoming the best “magician” we can be.

When we are being compassionate, sensitive, connected, open hearted, present, sensual and sexual; we are becoming the best “lover” we can be,

When we are being creative, generous, authoritative and hopeful for the future; we are becoming the best “king” we can be.

There is this and so much more that The Reclaim Your Kingdom Program covers.

The Importance Of Ritual Initiation

Up until recently, boys were led into individuation through sacred ritual initiation.

A transitory ceremony from boyhood to manhood, led by male elders to test and usher a boy into manhood. Depending on the culture, boys were guided with ethical principles of how to move through the world as a man.

We miss this in today’s society and there is a dedicated principle that covers this theme of initiation in this program.

  • The Greeks had a ritual initiation known as the Dokimasia. An interview held by an assembly of local representatives to determine whether a young man had developed the physical and mental faculties to become a contributing member of society. If he passed he was then deemed worthy of owning land, fighting for his country and voting.

  • The native Americans had a vision quest, where a young man ventures out into the woods, completely forgoes food and water for 3-4 days and uses that time to pray to the spirits that they may have a vision – one that will help them find their grand and connected purpose in life, their role in their community, and how they may best serve the people that are a part of their community.


  • The Australian Aboriginal people had ‘walkabouts and other varied practices.
  • Deep in the heart of the Brazilian Amazon lives the Satere-Mawe tribe. To become a man in the Satere-Mawe, a boy must stick his hand in a glove woven with bullet ants and withstand their stings for over 10 minutes without making a noise.

A New Paradigm Of Masculinity

Up until recently, every civilization around the world has had some sort of ritual to deem their boys worthy of the honour of manhood.

Transitioning from boyhood to manhood with guidance, support and structure from elders who were deemed wise and connected to Earth men was a powerful catalyst for healthy masculine expression.

We are missing this in modernity and it needs to change.

We cover this in the Reclaim Your Kingdom program.

For they wisely understood without this, boys would be left to their own devices to figure out what it means to be a man on their own and this is dangerous.

This disconnects men, makes them feel not worthy of attention and this behaviour can morph in to something extreme.

Increasing the likelihood of missing the deep significance of manhood to society and eventually perverting masculinity into the extreme expression of abhorrence or timidness that we experience today.

Our women are distressed, confused and are fed up and so are men.

The time to evolve is now.

We begin with awareness, education and a collective shift out of this paradigm.

The Journey Begins March 2019

Ready To Reclaim Your Kingdom?

You hear the call. Now it’s time to take fearless action.

Continue your application process by clicking below.

Remember, spaces are limited.

Common Questions Answered

Is this course only for men?

Yes, this is an immersive journey only for men designed to take you down a path of connection, sovereignty and redefining what it means to be a man in this day and age.

Will these sessions be recorded?
Yes, all sessions will be recorded for you to download and access as you desire.
How will we meet? What is the frequency, timing, etc?

We meet weekly via an online media platform such as Zoom.

You will be emailed a link at the beginning of each week to access the live webinar and recordings. We will meet for a couple of hours every week for 3 months. Our sessions are not timed per se. Be prepared to go deep into the self each week.

Is this immersive journey for children (young men)?

Yes. Absolutely!

13 years of age and older is recommended but a personal interview with your mentor and guide Stef will determine suitability. As young men, it is imperative we move through a very connected rite of passage. This is a perfect gift to give the young men in your life from a perspective of learning how to be a healthy man.

What payment options are available?

I am glad you asked.

There are payment options that allow you to pay in full, monthly and weekly across both payment categories. The first payment category is EMPOWER – This includes the entire 3-month program + 3 x 1 on 1 deep dive personal sessions with Stef – this is priced at $2997 USD for the entire 3 months. 

The second payment category is IGNITE – This includes the entire 3-month program minus the 1 on 1 sessions and is priced at ONLY $997 USD for the entire 3 month explorative and deep dive journey!


To sign up immediately and take advantage of this life-transformative program and journey go here: 


Reclaim Your Kingdom: The Warriors Code is an investment in your Self, your loved ones, your community, humanity and society and the potential value is truly priceless.

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